I drew a 38yearold woman for my Secret Santa I don’t know her very well, and I don’t know what to give her I don’t want to give her something that will just sit on a shelf or be of no use to her I’ve been told that if she likes something, she buys it, which complicates things I was thinking about a tea set for a woman, but I don’t know if she already has one She has a oneyearold son, if that helps
I’m 35 and have a oneyearold son I’d love a good pair of baby shoes, like the nonslip Bombas, which are perfect for toddlers Stylish LL Bean socks A cashmere hat A fancy box of chocolates or hot chocolate set A cozy throw for the couch A gift card to a highend clothing brand like Anthropologie, Ugg, or Other Stories that has a January sale to treat myself A small, highquality insulated baby bottle An Uber Eats gift card or similar for a lazy afternoon at home after the baby’s in bed If she’s into hair products or hair care, Moroccan oil is usually a safe bet, or you can buy that roundbrush hair dryer everyone’s talking about A good flat iron, especially for bangs, can cost around 50, if you have one Someone also mentioned AirTags, and I agreethey’re a really helpful idea if you fly a lot A Le Creuset coffee maker, an elegant teapot, or a highquality kitchen set are all options if she likes to cook I like the tea set, for example It should come with loose tea, rather than having to buy it separately By the way, don’t listen to anyone who tells you to buy a candle Not only is it the most banal gift a woman can receive, but it’s also a nightmare with a child and will end up in a drawer A lit flame and a child doing silly things Not at all
I’m glad the people suggested an experience instead of a gift It seems pretty pragmatic So, a Yeti with a gift certificate, tickets to an event, a zoo, a movie, or an electric blanket I’m not a mother, but many mothers tend to neglect themselves to focus on their children Maybe a date with your partner would be nice
I wouldn’t get her a tea set unless she loves it And if she’s single, she probably already has one And edible flower arrangements are a lot of fruit for one person All the ones I’ve bought have had bland, green, or even overripe fruit that’s rotting 
I love the Trader Joe’s flower idea Maybe I’ll get someone one this year The little practical touches, like an extra phone charger or AirTags for Apple AirTags And a highquality hand cream, since it’s winter L’Occitane
Hmm Maybe some practical things A convertible phone charging cable with ports for different devices and a power bank Or maybe some small things like three tracking tags like AirTags for finding lost important items and these silicone safety straps to keep them from falling off the stroller
Movie tickets
Ugg blanket
Harry David Fruit Box Royal Riviera pears are a classic We all love fruit, and few would spend more than 40 on a box of pears But receiving these delicious, juicy wonders as a gift is a true luxury
How about giving your daughter something to play with For example, tickets to the local zoo or aquarium
A 50 gift card to Target or Amazon
Phew, blanket and sleep mask
When in doubt, give her 50 1 ScratchOff tickets Whatever you give her, I think it should be a gift just for her, not just for her and her son Her life is already full A gift just for her seems more appropriate Good luck
A highquality chocolate with an expensive hand cream is delicious
Gift cards always win
A bottle of champagne and an Ulta gift card
Cordless electric tire inflator