It’s my wife’s first Mother’s Day, and I’m so exhausted from this four-month regression that my romantic and creative side has died. I’d love to spoil her and give her nice things, but I don’t know what to do. Sure, I’ll give her flowers, a nice meal, and a foot massage; I also bought a gift certificate for a woman who offers her favorite (very expensive) facials, but I want to do more. Any ideas?
Snapshots of her and her baby. Either by a professional or through a photoshoot if you’re a good photographer. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy, but I’m sure every mother wants more photos of herself and her baby.
My husband gave me a personalized book. Some publishers offer pre-made stories, but you can write names and even create characters that represent your family and choose the stories yourself. So, my book reflected how much my daughter thought she was a hero (how funny she was, how obvious my love for her was, etc.).
I wish I could tag my husband in this movie! Hahaha! As a transgender woman, I’d love to cut my hair (hair loss is a whole other experience) and spend at least five hours straight without anyone touching me.
My ex forgot to leave me home alone with the baby while he went to a motorcycle race. One of his friends reminded him, so he called and asked if he could pick me up to go with him. After I said no, he left and came back after the race with a card and a worn-out teddy bear with a heart on it that he’d bought at a gas station. I make very detailed teddy bears, so this was a double whammy because it showed how little he knew me. So, well done! You’re incredibly thoughtful and genuinely care about your wife and appreciate her very much. 
I don’t know if all mothers would like this, but I have a little wooden box with my baby’s hospital cap, his first socks, and his first hand and footprints. Maybe she’d like a pretty little box.
Let them sleep for 6 hours straight.
Blueberries (or similar varieties) for the garden. They’ll grow with your child and are a reward for all you’ve experienced, both in the form of flowers and fruit. Carefully consider the plant’s location (consult a land-use expert beforehand to determine the location of electrical, gas, and sewer lines) to ensure it grows safely. Read a brief care guide before purchasing and planting. I recommend blueberries because your child will probably love them too, but two are needed for good pollination (raspberries and blackberries cross-pollinate, so if you can find them, buy several; if not, try buying two different blueberries). Mother’s Day is also prime planting time in many areas. Lilacs are also beautiful and come in many varieties.
It’s your food!
I found out that my mother loved it.
A necklace with the baby’s initial? (I want that too!) I don’t know what your budget is, but there are tons of options for every budget. Tiffany has an elegant necklace for about $175.
Wow, what great ideas! I love the “self-care” theme: Treat her to her favorite snacks, a pedicure, book a massage, or a hair appointment (if your budget allows). Don’t forget to write her a heartfelt card or letter. The first Mother’s Day is always special. Another idea: If I were you, I’d love for my husband to organize a family photoshoot. Take some beautiful pictures of everyone together.
My husband is giving me practical, but practically unnecessary, gifts for the summer. I’ve been dreaming about a pop-up beach tent for a long time, so he bought me a great one from Pottery Barn. Plus, a new beach bag, beach towels, and a cooler! I’m pretty sure he got the Bog beach bag and a super-cute backpack cooler! My dad is giving my mom a Jeep for her grandkids.
Let her sleep in if possible and order a hearty breakfast delivered. Let her drink hot coffee.
We went out to lunch, did some shopping, and walked to a beautiful park, where strangers wished them a Happy Mother’s Day. Their proposal went very well 