Hi everyone, I’d like to know a father’s opinion on a suitable gift for my boyfriend’s parents. I’m 21, he’s 22, and we’ve been together for six months. I’ve spent a lot of time with his family, and we get along wonderfully. They’re lovely people, and I love visiting them. My boyfriend and I take our relationship very seriously, and while we focus on the day-to-day, we also think long-term. I’d like to give them something more personal than chocolate or wine, but nothing too extravagant. I was thinking of giving them my family’s favorite board game, but it seems they already have it. As a father, what would you like your son’s girlfriend to give him?
Your idea is brilliant! If they already have the board game, why not an experience? A Tinggly Experience Box would be great: they can choose something they enjoy, like a wine tasting, a spa day, or even an adventure if they’re feeling fancy. It’s personal, but not too personal, and it shows you’ve thought about it.
Do they enjoy playing games? What difficulty level do they prefer? My friend owns a board game café and recommends Splendor. Besides a gift, you could also cook something. You can bring a dish or make it yourself. We all love to eat.
I love Hallmark ornaments, but they’re not for everyone. I also love board games because they give you something to do after opening gifts. But remember: thoughtfulness is key. Think of the person, the person, and you’re sure to find the perfect gift.
I think they’ll appreciate the effort, no matter what you give them. Do they like coffee or tea? You could give them a bag with pretty coffee or tea samples, mugs, tea towels, or something else. I’m pretty sure that’s exactly what I gave my husband’s parents for our first Christmas together.
You could buy a nice Yankee Candle or a wooden candle, then a nice Home Goods or Hobby Lobby, etc., gift card for Mom, and perhaps a Lowe’s or Dick’s Sporting Goods gift card for Dad. You could also buy a nice blanket and a candle. Everyone loves a nice blanket! I do too. You could also buy a gift card to the local movie theater, if they plan on going on those outings. Or a poinsettia and a small gift or card would be nice too! Or a sentimental card with a note inside. These are all good ideas. You know what they like? It would help them.
Chocolate/wine.
Dude, that’s literally me!
Honestly, I wouldn’t accept too much. They might be embarrassed if they don’t give you something nice. It’s only been six months, so I think a nice bouquet of flowers and homemade chocolates would suffice. It’s only been six months, so don’t go too far with the hugs just yet.