I am trying to figure out what to get my dad’s girlfriend for Christmas. We are not super close but she has been kind and welcoming. I want to get her something polite and thoughtful without it being too personal or awkward. She likes cooking and decor and she is always dressed nicely. I do not want to spend too much or make it feel forced. Just something that says I appreciate her without overdoing it. Any ideas for gifts that strike the right balance? 
I gave my dad’s girlfriend a cookbook with easy recipes and she loved it. It was colorful and had lots of pictures. She said it gave her new ideas and she even made one of the dishes for us. It is thoughtful and fits her interest in cooking.
You could go with a scented candle in a neutral scent like vanilla or linen. I gave one to my stepmom and she said it made her room feel cozy. It is simple and elegant and does not feel too personal.
Candle sounds safe and nice. I think she would like that.
A small kitchen gadget like a milk frother or spice grinder could be fun. I gave one to my dad’s girlfriend and she uses it all the time. It is useful and shows you noticed her interests.
If she likes decor maybe a set of coasters or a decorative tray would be appreciated. I gave a marble tray once and it looked fancy without costing much. She placed it on her coffee table right away.
You could also go with a pretty mug and a box of herbal tea. I gave that combo to someone and they said it felt cozy and thoughtful. It is easy to put together and works well for casual gifting.
Decorative tray is a clever idea. I will check some online.
A small potted plant like a succulent or orchid could be nice. I gave one to my dad’s girlfriend and she placed it in the kitchen. It adds life to the space and is low maintenance.
If she wears jewelry maybe a simple bracelet or charm would be okay. Nothing flashy just something subtle. I gave one with a leaf design and she said it was cute and delicate.
You could also write a short note thanking her for being kind and include it with the gift. I did that once and it made the whole gesture feel more personal.
Note with the gift is a good touch. I will do that.
A holiday-themed dish towel or apron could be fun. I gave one with snowflakes and she wore it while cooking. It is festive and practical.
If she enjoys scents maybe a small perfume roller or hand cream set would be appreciated. I gave one from a local brand and she said it felt luxurious.